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loophole's avatar

I've had a similar idea. For a while when I was in college, all the people I spent the most time with had beliefs and values that were very far from my own, and I felt I was absorbing too much from them. Partly for that reason (and partly for entertainment), I listened to about a zillion hours of Rob Wiblin interviews. It definitely helped.

The flip side is that if I consume too much good stuff, I end up with an inferiority complex. But maybe the issue there is just relating too intellectually and not enough socially.

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malatela's avatar

Even if 1) were true, it may be the strategies those more successful people are using won't work for you or are, indeed, sub-optimal for you based on your skill-sets.

At any rate, I think the main benefit of social relationships is reciprocity, which para-social relationships lack entirely.

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